Girlfriend, Funeral, And A Date. Need An Answer Quick. Help?

So me and my girlfriend are always really busy and unfortunately we only see each other about once a month. Well this saturday we planned to get together, and then on Tuesday one of her bestfriends suddenly died which devasted my girlfriend. We talked alot and she healed a bit. But the funeral is Satuday, and while I didnt expect her to come over she says she wants to. Well Id love to see her again, but Im not sure what to do now. Before we were planning on more sexual stuff, but with the funeral and everything Im not sure if thats a good idea and offered to do whatever she wanted to make her feel better even if it was just cuddle up and watch chick flicks all night. Well she wants me to choose, and quite honestly Iv been dying to get my first bj from her, but there is no way Im putting my petty urges over her well being and what Id imagine to be alot of grief, etc… But she wants me to decide what we do and says shes ok with anything. Help??